{"id":5336,"date":"2022-07-19T17:56:00","date_gmt":"2022-07-19T17:56:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/updates.xephalon.net\/?p=5336"},"modified":"2022-09-07T04:44:28","modified_gmt":"2022-09-07T04:44:28","slug":"best-thing-about-nyc-is-you-and-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.xephalon.net\/updates\/2022\/07\/19\/best-thing-about-nyc-is-you-and-me\/","title":{"rendered":"Best Thing about NYC"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/updates.xephalon.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/2022.07.19.a.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-5365\" src=\"https:\/\/updates.xephalon.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/2022.07.19.a-100x100.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"100\" height=\"100\" \/><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/updates.xephalon.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/2022.07.19.b.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-5366\" src=\"https:\/\/updates.xephalon.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/2022.07.19.b-100x100.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"100\" height=\"100\" \/><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/updates.xephalon.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/2022.07.19.c.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-5368\" src=\"https:\/\/updates.xephalon.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/2022.07.19.c-100x100.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"100\" height=\"100\" \/><\/a>I had planned to attend <a href=\"https:\/\/www.asrs.org\/annual-meeting\">ASRS<\/a> in NYC as an opportunity to visit family and friends. But with my parents stuck in Davis and Melody attending a conference in Florida, it became a mission to keep Westley alive as I planned our father-son itinerary in the Big Apple. We secured an <a href=\"https:\/\/www.uber.com\/us\/en\/ride\/car-seat\/\">Uber car-seat<\/a> from JFK after our red-eye and quickly unpacked at my parents&#8217; home before heading out. Westley was not a fan of my everything <a href=\"https:\/\/www.yelp.com\/biz\/hot-bagels-brooklyn\">bagel<\/a>, but enjoyed our subway ride to Dumbo to visit <a href=\"https:\/\/www.brooklynbridgepark.org\/\">Brooklyn Bridge Park<\/a>. Here, we watched locals work out, swing, roller skate, and play handball and pickleball along the Manhattan skyline on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.brooklynbridgepark.org\/places-to-see\/pier-2\/\">Pier 2<\/a>. I politely declined Westley&#8217;s request to assassinate me at the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.brooklynbridgepark.org\/places-to-see\/playgrounds\/pier-1-playground\/\">playground<\/a>, and instead shared a burger, fries, and Oreo shake at <a href=\"https:\/\/shakeshack.com\/\">Shake Shack<\/a> to escape the heat. From there, we walked past a dead rat to cross Brooklyn Bridge, stopping for photos and a Brooklyn hat before passing <a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/New_York_City_Hall\">City Hall<\/a> to reach the <a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/World_Trade_Center_station_(PATH)\">Oculus station<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.911memorial.org\/\">9\/11 Memorial<\/a>. My first visit to Ground Zero since the tragedy 21 years ago felt especially poignant having spent many high school days there, and watching videos with Westley at the <a href=\"https:\/\/911tributemuseum.org\/\">9\/11 Tribute Museum<\/a> was unexpectedly emotional for me. We hydrated with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dragonteanewyork.com\/\">boba tea<\/a> and street vendor mangos to burn if back off at the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thebattery.org\/in-design\/playscape\/\">Battery Playscape<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.seaglasscarousel.nyc\/\">SeaGlass Carousel<\/a> on the way to the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.siferry.com\/\">Staten Island Ferry<\/a> to see the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nps.gov\/stli\/index.htm\">Statue of Liberty<\/a>. Our exhausting first day ended with dinner with my cousin Minh&#8217;s family. I awoke Wednesday to share my childhood toys and crafts with Westley, then headed to the <a href=\"https:\/\/ois.net\/2022-ois-events\/\">OIS<\/a> meeting while Westley got drawing lessons and new <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bakugan.com\/en\/home\">bakugans<\/a> from Minh and my nephews. I picked him up for a slice at <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/kornerpizzeria\/?_rdr\">Korner Pizza<\/a> and cone at <a href=\"https:\/\/locations.carvel.com\/ny\/brooklyn\/203-church-ave\">Carvel<\/a> on the way to our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriott.com\/en-us\/hotels\/nycmq-new-york-marriott-marquis\/overview\/\">hotel<\/a>, where a detour through <a href=\"https:\/\/www.rockefellercenter.com\/\">Rockefeller Center<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/faoschwarz.com\/\">FAO Schwartz<\/a> ended with an indoor <a href=\"https:\/\/faoschwarz.com\/products\/wicked-indoor-booma\">booma<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/eakramen.com\/\">E.A.K. ramen<\/a> for dinner. I stayed up late to practice my talk, and walked with Westley to <a href=\"https:\/\/javitscenter.com\/\">Javits Center<\/a> next morning to upload it, but got kicked out of breakfast due to a sketchy building policy prohibiting children. We instead explored fighter jets, space shuttle, and submarine at the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.intrepidmuseum.org\/\">Intrepid<\/a>, shared <a href=\"https:\/\/cornerslicenyc.com\/\">pizza<\/a>\u00a0at <a href=\"https:\/\/gothamwestmarket.com\/\">Gotham West Market<\/a>, then returned to Javits in stealth mode for my talk, as my friend Parisa watched Westley fashion <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wikkistix.com\/\">wikkistix<\/a>. We were relieved to return to the hotel, where Westley completed his Daiso 3D <a href=\"https:\/\/www.daisojapan.com\/p-45912-3d-puzzle-work-vehicle-3-assort-9pks.aspx\">frontloader<\/a> before returning to Times Square for visits to the <a href=\"https:\/\/stores.shopdisney.com\/ny\/new-york\/777\/\">Disney store<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fdnysmart.org\/firezone\/\">FDNY Fire Zone<\/a>, udon at <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tsurutontan.com\/\">Tsuro Ton Tan<\/a>, and macarons at <a href=\"https:\/\/miasbrooklyn.com\/\">Mia&#8217;s Brooklyn Bakery<\/a>. Melody finally joined us Friday morning to enjoy <a href=\"https:\/\/krispykreme.com\/timessquare\">Krispy Kreme<\/a> donuts and NYC views atop the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.esbnyc.com\/\">Empire State Building<\/a> that reminded us of <a href=\"https:\/\/curious-george.fandom.com\/wiki\/Monkey_city\">Curious George&#8217;s<\/a> adventures. Lunch at <a href=\"https:\/\/www.carminesnyc.com\/locations\/times-square\">Carmine&#8217;s<\/a> with Eric and Sumit was heavy and exhausting, but <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bt21.com\/\">BT21<\/a> paraphernalia at <a href=\"https:\/\/store.linefriends.com\/\">Line Friends<\/a> helped energize Melody and Westley for our afternoon at <a href=\"https:\/\/centralparkzoo.com\/\">Central Park Zoo<\/a>. Unfortunately, animal feeding was over at the <a href=\"https:\/\/centralparkzoo.com\/things-to-do\/exhibits\/tisch-childrens-zoo\">Children&#8217;s Zoo<\/a> and the RC sail boats were absent at <a href=\"https:\/\/www.centralparknyc.org\/locations\/conservatory-water\">Conservatory Water<\/a>, but we recovered over dinner with Nancy and Meenakashi, whose Central Park West sunset view overlooking <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lincolncenter.org\/\">Lincoln Center&#8217;s<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lincolncenter.org\/series\/summer-for-the-city\">summer dance<\/a>\u00a0made for a relaxing end to the long day. On Saturday, we embarked on a Flushing food tour with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.yelp.com\/biz\/new-flushing-bakery-flushing\">New Flushing Bakery&#8217;s<\/a> egg tarts, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.yelp.com\/biz\/joes-steam-rice-roll-%E7%9F%B3%E7%A3%A8%E8%85%B8%E7%B2%89%E7%8E%8B-flushing\">Joe&#8217;s steam rice roll<\/a> with curry fish balls, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.yelp.com\/biz\/white-bear-flushing\">White Bear&#8217;s<\/a> chili oil wontons, Chongqing noodles at <a href=\"https:\/\/www.yelp.com\/biz\/chong-qing-xiao-mian-%E9%87%8D%E6%85%B6%E5%B0%8F%E9%BA%B5-flushing\">New World Mall<\/a>, and lian pi from <a href=\"https:\/\/www.xianfoods.com\/\">Xi&#8217;an Famous Foods<\/a>, but were disappointed by the closure of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.yelp.com\/biz\/siblings-potato-noodles-flushing-3\">Sibling&#8217;s potato noodles<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.yelp.com\/biz\/golden-shopping-mall-flushing-2\">Golden Shopping Mall<\/a>. A potty break interrupted our subway ride to the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amnh.org\/\">American Museum of Natural History<\/a>, but we made the next showing at the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.hrm.org\/planetarium\/\">Hayden Planetarium<\/a> before hanging with Jing&#8217;s family at the dinosaur exhibits and Ed&#8217;s family for <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sanmatteonyc.com\/\">dinner<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/16handles.com\/\">dessert<\/a>. After a final <a href=\"https:\/\/clearsidebio.com\/\">ad board<\/a> Sunday morning, we headed to K-town for <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bcdtofuhouse.com\/\">BCD Tofu House<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.hmart.com\/\">H-mart<\/a> kimbap for our return flight. The <a href=\"https:\/\/momath.org\/\">National Museum of Mathematics<\/a> offered fun, interactive exhibits of patterns and puzzles which kept us busy up to retrieving our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.hyatt.com\/en-US\/hotel\/new-york\/hyatt-herald-square-new-york\/nychh?src=corp_lclb_gmb_seo_nychh\">luggage<\/a> for the flight home. We would&#8217;ve appreciated a break before returning to work, but it was fun tracing landmarks from the <a href=\"https:\/\/genius.com\/They-might-be-giants-new-york-city-lyrics\">New York City<\/a> song lyrics with Westley as he navigated crowds, smells, and subway in my hometown.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I had planned to attend ASRS in NYC as an opportunity to visit family and friends. 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